I read my first Rules book on New Year’s Day 2012, about two years after a girlfriend had mentioned it to me. In March 2014, I married the man of my dreams. It wasn’t an easy road. Even after reading The Rules and trying them out, I thought I could tailor them to my own ideas of what should work. I broke a few and bent some others and although dating was getting better, I still needed to get it right.
Finally, about six months down the track, I decided it was going to be all or nothing. And wow, did it make a difference!
But I still needed help. Putting the words of a good book into practice is only as good as your self-determination but is limited by the lack of experience you have. About a month after I met the man I married, I found Lyn. There is not a shred of doubt in my mind that without her, I would probably not have married this man. Even if I had married him, it would not have been as amazing as it is. Like Lyn always said to me, “You don’t just want a husband. You want an incredible husband and an incredible marriage.” She taught me the day-to-day techniques of having a relationship with a man and took me to a new level well beyond the theory. I knew that this man was probably a keeper but I had to take my self-discipline and emotional control to a place that was unlike any other creature he had ever met. Lyn was invaluable as I discussed with her my own situations and predicaments and every time, she gave me the most wonderful, effective advice.
It was all about setting firm boundaries that I never strayed from, all the while, staying light and breezy. My husband tells me repeatedly that one of the reasons he loves me so much is that I am just so easy to be with. He continually expresses how he has never been so happy and that he is so passionately in love, like he’d dreamed about all his life but never thought possible. To me, The Rules are about accepting men as they are, understanding that they are different to women and then learning how to get into the flow of a relationship: allowing it to be what it is, and allowing him to do what he is going to do, all because he truly loves you and wants to do it, not because he is feeling any pressure or obligation to you. It has been the most incredible thing to witness first hand. It’s all thanks to Lyn. She showed me, and continues to show me how to make it work, how to be the best I can be and, in turn, bring out the best in him, to have the most amazing marriage I could have ever dreamed of. I want everyone to get out of the dating jungle and experience the joy that I have found with my husband.
Lyn can show you the way!
Lyn has been an inspirational and motivating dating coach. I have gained a lot of knowledge on how to approach my dating life with respect and dignity by applying the Rules.
In the first few weeks of coaching, Lyn was able to dissect all my text messages and pinpoint to me mistakes, I have been making unknowingly. She is critical and makes you think again about each and every thing you do or say while getting to know a man. She has thought me ways to identify time wasters quickly. She has given me the courage and ability to say NO in a relationship.
Since I am divorced and am back in the dating scene, she has encouraged me to put myself out there and attend single events and speed dating events. I was very hesitant to attend such events on my own but Lyn gave me confidence and courage and I attended two such events. It was a good avenue to assist me in practicing my tone and watch how other non-rules girls approached men.
I have truly benefitted from Lyn’s coaching and would put everything I learnt into use in my search for Mr Right. I have practised the rules and have seen it work all through the help of Lyn!
I started having consultations with The Dating Angel and it has revolutionised my relationship. I cannot think of a more worthy use of money than investing in my future marriage.
Lyn is one of those exceptional A grade therapists that could charge $1000 an hour and she would still attract just as many clients. She provides really strong evidence-based advice about the effects of women’s behaviour on men and how we can make relationships work for us.
I was initially hesitant about paying $800 for a dating coach, but within minutes of speaking to Lyn, I immediately saw the extraordinarily high value of her counsel. You don’t get this kind of individual, expert advice from reading a dating blog, a dating book, talking on Facebook or online forum or talking to friends and family. This is the real deal.
You feel like you won the lottery with a coach like Lyn on your side. I would recommend her as the best coach I have ever encountered in my personal and professional life (I am in business). For less than the cost of a designer handbag, or an overseas trip, you can get the relationship you want and the marriage you are ready for.
BOOK A CONSULTATION WITH LYN, LADIES!
After being heartbroken once again, I decided that something needed a drastic change. I was determined to figure out exactly what it was that I had been doing wrong in my relationships. I didn’t want to go through such a thing ever again.
When I came across Lyn’s website on a list for Certified Dating and Relationship Coaches, instinctively, I knew that I had to contact HER. Something told me that “this woman is going to change my life”.
Initially, I received a complimentary session, which was great because I had the chance to get to know Lyn and her approach and she was able to listen to my story and my questions and give an honest opinion in whether she would be able to help me.
Even though I live in the Netherlands, it has never been a problem to book a session despite our busy schedules and despite the time difference! I bought a consultation package and throughout our weekly sessions, Lyn told me what I had been doing wrong with this guy I was/am in love with. She told me the reasons why my approach(es) didn’t work with any guy and on top of that she also recommended me tons of really great and informative e-books about dating and men.
Above all, she is so patient and so wise! I really haven’t met anyone who has this much knowledge about men and relationships. We went through every conceivable and occurred scenario and we also discussed my received texts/emails from guys. We discussed the right strategy and more importantly, the reasons why.
From the first session on, my whole perspective on relationships, dating and men has been changed. I have grown as a person and as a woman and today, 3 months later, I am a new and improved person.
The best gift Lyn has given to me is self-esteem about the fact that from this point on I am sure that I won’t be making the same mistakes again and I won’t attract the wrong men anymore. She has taught me how to act and how to think and I have her for guidance, so I’m assured of a happy ending!
Thank you my dear coach Lyn!
I have been working with Lyn for almost a year now. I have to admit I was the ultimate rule breaker before I met her even though I thought I knew the rules. I’ve read the books and knew all the rules but when it came to putting them into practice I failed. It was really hard for me to break old habits.
My biggest downfall…
I’m needy, emotional, and I crave reassurance and validation. To my surprise this was very clear to the men I was dating and that’s why I’ve had failed relationship after failed relationship. Lynn helps me develop coping skills to deal with my anxiety during times when I would seek validation and reassurance from a man. I’ve learned through practice that this only pushes men away. There were many times when I would argue with Lyn and say I don’t want to play games, I feel like the rules don’t work, I feel like men are doing the rules on me.
But every time I took her advice and followed her guidelines she never failed me and I always ended up with less anxiety and feeling more confident and more in control. I can’t even tell you how many times I called Lyn in tears saying it’s not working, he doesn’t love me, I’m pushing him away and Lyn would bring me back to reality and say you’re not being honest with yourself you haven’t been following the rules strictly. And when I thought about it I wasn’t. And then all of a sudden everything just clicked and made sense. I broke every rule only to learn that breaking the rules doesn’t work, and I’ve learned that doing the rules gets me what I want and gets him crazy about me.