|Question Of The Week
Can I cancel my Online Profile, I’m getting over it. There hasn’t been any decent guys in ages?
Wow – If I had a dollar for every time someone has said this to me, I would be very rich.
The truth is that you have nothing to lose, you can’t be more single!!
Every time you are tempted to give up remember you are only looking for one guy for the rest of your life and he might be the next one who contacts you.
One reason why girls want to cancel their profile is if they get a much older guy or a really unattractive guy, they allow this to lower their self esteem by thinking
‘Is that really all I’m going to get approaching me’.
Men are different to us and have huge egos, they will always, as my husband puts it
‘try to bat above their average’ (aussie saying).
If they are a 6 they will want to date in the pool of the 9’s or 10’s.
Many years ago I owned and operated a Matchmaking Agency and one of the questions I asked the guys was
‘what type of girl are you looking for?’,
many times when they were in their 50’s and 60’s they would say,
‘someone just like you’
I was in my 30’s at the time. They were very serious and I would explain that a girl in her 30’s in only generally interested in a guy in his 50’s and 60’s if he has lots of money and they would be only attracting gold diggers.
When a guy that isn’t your type, isn’t as attractive as you had hoped or much older, rather than taking offence, have a giggle to yourself and say to yourself, ‘well, good on him for trying’. It is never a reflection on you.
Maybe another reason you want cancel you profile is if someone is rude or hurtful to you, once again, don’t take offence, don’t take it personally, thank God you found out what they were like before you met them.
The best way to look at it is to feel sorry for them, something sad must be going on in their life to treat people like that.
Unless the Online site is really really expensive, keep it up, no need to cancel, just learn to respond to they way guys contact you rather than reacting in a negative way.
So many of my clients have met great guys just when they were about to give up. You have nothing to lose however you could gain an awesome husband.
When you are tempted to cancel your profile ask yourself
‘why?’ Is it really that bad?
Turn the offence around and start having some fun.
If you are struggling with your Online Dating, schedule a complimentary session with Krystal, she is the bomb!!
Have trust and faith, he’s out there looking for you.
Love Krystal and Lyn
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