Here Is The Answer!!
We recently posted a quiz on our Facebook Page, here is the details;
A guy you have been dating has asked you to go to the beach with him however you would much rather go to the movies.
Do you ….
A : suggest movies instead
B : go to the beach and have a good time
C : cancel completely and go to the movies with a friend.
and there were lots of different opinions on what the correct answer is.
I thought it would be beneficial to give the answer in more detail so you have a better understanding of how men think.
Whilst it is not uncommon to be asked to go on a date to the beach, it would depend on how long you have been dating as to whether you would accept.
If you have been dating for a short time (under a coupe of months) a date at the beach wouldn’t be a great idea for a number of reasons.
* Not many girls feel amazing in a swimsuit no matter what their size and they could go into the date not feeling overly confident.
* He doesn’t get to see that much of you too soon, all beautiful and precious things are covered, think of diamonds that are hidden deep in the earth.
* It’s too casual too soon, wait until you are in a serious committed relationship before you go to the beach
* Some guys intentions are not great, they can be trying to check you out in swimsuit to decide if they want to continue dating you.
* Some guys don’t think too much into it they just think it’s a good idea at the time
Girls it’s up to you to have standards and boundaries, you need to make sure that when you do implement these standards and boundaries that they are done in a sweet and feminine manner.
The best way to answer the question is;
Him – ”Hey, would you like to go to the beach sometime ?’
If you have been dating under a couple of months and not in a serious committed relationship then the best answer would be,
You – ‘Thank you that would be lovely, however I don’t feel comfortable with going to the beach with you yet?
This lets the guy know that it is something that you would do with a guy that you have known for longer or in a serious committed relationship with. If the guy sees you as his dream girl this answer will not put him off, in fact he will have more respect for you as you aren’t willing to lower your standards and boundaries for any guy.
So answer ‘A” isn’t the best as we don’t tell a guy what to do, it needs to be his idea, we want him to date us without us telling him what to do.
Answer ‘B’ would be correct if you are in long term committed relationship with him.
Answer ‘C’ is correct but the way we have described as above. We aren’t exactly cancelling, however we are letting him know that we would say no to a date to the beach, giving him the opportunity to come up with another suggestion.
If he doesn’t come up with another plan then we know he was thinking of us as Casual Girl and you would rather know now than later.
We really appreciate everyone’s feedback on our quiz’s keep up the good work.
Don’t ever compromise your standards and boundaries for any guy, it won’t make them like you anymore in fact it could make them like you less and a man will only marry a girl that shows she has value.
Acting in your feminine means never being afraid to say no, you are only going to be a guy’s dream girl, nothing less.
You are too loved and too valuable to be anything else.
Have trust and faith, he’s out there looking for you.
Love Krystal and Lyn
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