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Sometimes in life or maybe even lots of times in life we over complicate the way we are meant to live.
One of the things that I love about my life since becoming Christian is that my life is a lot more simple.
I don’t worry about the stuff I used to worry about,
I don’t try to figure everything out,
I don’t try to over complicate things,
I don’t try so hard to convince people I’m a good person,
I don’t try to make things happen,
I don’t try to get my own way,
I don’t lower my standards,
I don’t change my boundaries.
I don’t try to control what I can’t control.
I simply have trust and faith by following the very simple and wise advice from The Bible, that everything will work out the way it is meant to be.
One of the best things I have done is trying to get out of my own way, stop controlling and sit back, wait and watch. providing I’m doing what is right on my part then I have a peace that can’t be explained.
So what has this got to with Dating??
We try to overcomplicate things by trying to convince the guy to like us, and this can be done in a variety of ways but one of the most common is by sleeping with the guy. We think we can show him how great we are in bed, that he will be crazy about us and think life will be exciting with us.
The truth is the guy will be really excited in the moment with the ‘amazing’ sex, however when it is over he will be questioning…..
‘how did she know that stuff?
”how many other guys has she slept with?
”wow, she is very experienced’
However once the sex is over he may want you out of there, it may not make him feel special it might make him feel like ‘another notch in your belt’, If you sleep with him too soon you may run this risk.
You hear me many times talk about Dream Girl and Casual Girl and so many girls ask, how will I know, and the simple answer is wait until you sleep with him.
A guy is really wanting 2 things, one to have a serious committed relationship with you or to have sex with you.
When he first sees you he knows which category you are in, if you want to stay as Dream Girl, wait until you sleep with him.
I personally would prefer for you to wait until you are married to have sex, call me old fashioned however there are several physiological, scientific and spiritual reasons behind it (contact me directly if you would like to know more about this).
The truth is neither Krystal or I waited although if we had our time over again we would have. If you don’t wait until your married it isn’t going to stop a guy from wanting to marry you, however your marriage will be different.
Both my Mum and Dad waited that was 64 years ago.
If you don’t feel waiting until your married is for you, then at least…..
Wait until he has said I love you.
Wait until you have met his family and friends,
Wait until he asked you to be exclusive,
Wait until you know it is getting very close to the proposal.
Understand that I am not trying to judge anyone, what makes me a great Dating Coach that whatever you have done, I have done too, I have made many mistakes and cried many tears that looking back were so unnecessary.
I have discovered through nearly 10 years of being a Dating Coach, study and experience that there is a much easier and more simple way to date, let me show you too.
If anyone is interested in finding out more about mine or Krystal’s personal Spiritual Journey we are always happy to share with you. Sherrie Schneider was brave enough to share this with me, which changed my life.
It’s not too late to make changes with the way you date or the relationship you are currently in, no matter how much of a mess it might seem.
Today is the day you might need an Angel to hold your hand!!
Krystal and Lyn
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