|What Attracts A Guy??
When I ask this question, the following answers are what girls usually answer….
Even thought these things can attract a guy, the answer to all these is no, it is confidence.
Now, confidence doesn’t mean ‘that your up yourself’ or that you love yourself in an arrogant way, however it does mean that you won’t put up with bad behaviour from a guy just to keep him………
Confidence can mean that you can easily take him or leave him.
Confidence can mean that you won’t be scared that if you don’t give in to all his demands that he will dump you.
Confidence can mean that you don’t need to sleep with him just to keep him.
Confidence can mean that you don’t need to text him to remind him that you exist.
Confidence can mean that you don’t need to drive to see him, that he is welcome to drive to you.
Confidence can mean saying no to last minute dates.
Confidence can mean that you don’t need to initiate affection.
Confidence can mean that you don’t need to buy him gifts to show you like him.
Confidence can mean saying no to dates unless it is a Saturday night.
Confidence can mean that you will walk away without a proposal and ring after a year.
Confidence can mean that you don’t need to move in with him, your happy to wait until your married.
Confidence can mean your not afraid to say no.
Confidence can mean that you won’t change your standards and boundaries for anyone.
This list above is very sexy to a guy, it shows a girl to be really intelligent. A guy knows when he is trying to get away with bad behaviour and it makes him question her confidence and intelligence if he can.
A guy that sees you as his dream girl will be so proud of his girl’s confidence. If she sticks to the list above, it won’t put him off, however it will remind him of what a prize she is and how blessed he will be to be her husband.
It’s not too late to make changes with the way you date or the relationship you are currently in, no matter how much of a mess it might seem.
Today is the day you might need an Angel to hold your hand!!
Krystal and Lyn
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