It can be a challenge at times of knowing who to date.
The idea of dating is getting to know someone with the view to marriage;
Dating shouldn’t be hanging out with a guy until someone better comes along
Dating shouldn’t be about relieving your boredom
Dating shouldn’t be just hanging out and having sex
Dating shouldn’t be about being with someone because they are wealthy or famous.
Dating shouldn’t be about having to message and pursue the guy so he will see you
The first date should be just a coffee or a drink for approximately one hour, at the end of the date you should be asking yourself,
‘Can I see myself waking up next to him in 10 years time?’
If the answer is no, ask yourself, why no?
Make sure you aren’t ‘throwing the baby out with the bath water’ make sure the reason you don’t want to see him again is for the right reason.
If he is a ‘maybe’ or ‘yes’ go on another date with him, this time dinner. Ask yourself the same question and go through the same process again. Then another dinner, each one a week apart, you should have a fairly clear indication by date 4, if you can see yourself with him, once again, make sure it is for the right reasons, the number one on your list is does he have good character, looks can fade and money can go, however as I have said many times character will take you all the way to the end.
Maybe finding a husband isn’t in the plan for your life and maybe it is, however you don’t want to look back with any regrets.
If it doesn’t work out at least be able to say,
I did my best,
I made the most of my looks,
I kept in shape,
I online dated,
I went out to bars and clubs,
I went on blind dates,
I went to singles events,
I went to parties,
Above all I keep a good attitude
Not in a desperate way, just like if your were unemployed you would do everything in your power to find the right job for you.
Susan from Facebook inspired me to encourage you that it’s ok if some guys disappear before the date, you don’t waste your time, at least you know they were only going to date you if you did the work and that would never end well. They are not the guys to date.
The ones that ask you for your number and ask you on a date, they are the ones to date.
Remember you are only looking for one guy to be your husband for the rest of your life.
Keep in mind the purpose of dating and protect your heart from being hurt.
Love Lyn x
To ask me a dating question, email me at
Visit me at www.thedatingangel.com.au
+61 434 559 629 (Australia)
If you would like to know more about Dating Coaching and if it is right for you, schedule a session to chat with me the first session is free, click on the link below
Relationship Expert and Dating Coach