Don’t you just love it when people say to you..
You are so pretty, why are you single?
you are so intelligent, why are you single?
you are such a good catch, why are you single?
what’s wrong with the guys today?
I know it can be so frustrating because if you had the answer to those questions you probably wouldn’t be single. I am sure you probably ask yourself those same questions.
There are a number of reasons why you may still be single and one of the best, most important but hardest things to do is to look inward and ask yourself the tough question ‘Why do I think I am still single’
The list might include;
I can’t be bothered dating
I had a really bad experience online dating and I don’t want to try again
I need to lose some weight and get in shape
I need to take better care of myself
I don’t go out enough
I don’t like the dating process
Nobody asks me out
I’m too old
I’m a single Mum
Even though the list above may be true there are ways and means around all those objectives and your mind set can change.
Let’s tackle them one by one;
I can’t be bothered dating –
Why not, is it due to a bad experience or just laziness – this can be changed
I had a really bad experience online dating and I don’t want to try again –
I don’t blame you on this one, Online dating can be scary if you don’t know what you are doing but with some coaching it can be lots of fun and successful
I need to lose some weight and get in shape –
This can be hard to face the truth and where do you start. I can recommend The Weigh Down Diet Book
I need to take better care of myself –
Just like in the aeroplane, put your own oxygen mask on first, you will be a much better person when you learn to take care of yourself and your health, then help others
I don’t go out enough –
Find a single girlfriend and just go, have the mindset I only have to stay 30 minutes and if I don’t like it I can go home, you may be surprised and have a really good time
I don’t like the dating process –
This usually comes down to a lack of knowledge, dating is a skill that needs to be learnt, that’s where I come in to help
I’m too old –
Just so you know, my client came to me at 68 years old and got married on her 70th birthday, there is hope for you too
I’m a single Mum –
So was I and I met my husband when my twins were 4 years old, if I can do it so can you
We can let excuses and the negative voices in our head overtake the truth, the truth is there is always an opportunity to meet someone. We can overcome the obstacles and get help where needed.
There is nothing wrong with being single, like I wrote in my recent Facebook post there are benefits to being single and to being married, however let’s try what we can to tip the odds in our favour of meeting our wonderful future husband.
If there is anything in the blog that resonates with you and you need some help, please don’t hesitate to reach out, that’s what I’m here for.
Love Lyn x
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